At The Academy, we are trained to manage, what we call, preschool separation anxiety. This is a common and natural phase in a young child’s development. It typically occurs at the ages of six months to three years—just when a child may be entering preschool.
Signs and Symptoms of Preschool Separation Anxiety
This condition shows itself when a child experiences distress and fear when separated from their parents. If your child is experiencing separation anxiety, this is what you may experience when you drop off your child at preschool:
- Your child cries or has a tantrum when you try to leave
- Your child clings to you
What we see after you leave may include these behaviors:
- Refusal to participate in activities
- Complaints of physical ailments such as stomachaches or headaches
- Difficulty sleeping taking a nap
The Academy’s Approach to Preschool Separation Anxiety
Our staff is trained to manage separation anxiety with patience, empathy, and consistency. By providing a supportive environment and using effective strategies, we help your child navigate this challenging phase.
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Strategies for Managing Separation Anxiety for Parents
For parents, managing separation anxiety involves a combination of reassurance, gradual separation, and fostering independence. Here are some strategies that can help:
Establish a Routine
A predictable routine can provide a sense of security for young children. Knowing what to expect each day, including when separations will occur, can reduce anxiety. Consistent goodbyes and reunions help children understand that separations are temporary and that their parents will return.
Gradual Departures
Accustom your child to short separations, such as leaving your child with a friend or sitter for an hour. Gradually increase the separation time so that your child becomes more comfortable. This practice helps build trust and confidence in the child that you will return.
Positive Reinforcement
Praise and reward the child for handling separations well. Positive reinforcement encourages them to manage their anxiety and fosters a sense of achievement.
